I used to think I raised my daughter well, but the consequences prove otherwise. She decided to secretly get pregnant by her boyfriend so that he would marry her later.She doesn’t intend to inform him about the pregnancy until it’s impossible to terminate. It’s not about love; she is completely indifferent to him. The sole reason is his immense wealth. She wants to live in affluence and spare herself from any hardships. Her idea seems morally reprehensible to me. One shouldn’t engage in such actions solely for material gain.
But what about love? Human relationships? I firmly believe that nothing good can be built on a foundation of deceit. I tried to dissuade my daughter from her misguided plan, but she thinks I have no right to interfere in her life. The only solution I see is revealing her scheme to the boyfriend.However, I fear that my daughter will cut off all communication with me if I do so. She may never see me as a trustworthy mother again. She fails to realize that her plan might not work, and what if he rejects the child?
Wealth allows people to do various things. He could easily bribe someone, prove the child isn’t his, or something worse. What then? I won’t abandon her, but I’m sure she won’t be pleased with such an outcome. Even if everything goes as she planned,
it won’t be a happy family because it lacks love. Moreover, the child will be unwanted. I don’t want my grandchild to end up in such a situation. Please advise me on what to do; I see no way out. I’ve grown weary of trying to influence my daughter.