She cried throughout the delivery, all because she gave birth to a son, the third in a row. When I tried to congratulate her, she yelled, “Are you mocking me? Why are you congratulating me? Another boy!”
“Didn’t you know it was going to be a boy? Did you not have an ultrasound?”
I couldn’t see the baby’s gender. It was positioned poorly, then closed. I hoped until the end that my dream would come true.
– , you can’t do this. The main thing is to be healthy. Is your husband happy?
– He doesn’t care. But I dreamed of a girl!
– Why act so petty? As if the child is to blame. What did you name your son?.
My son was standing next to me. I said to him, “Let’s take a little one for ourselves, because was very upset.”
“Take him, take him,” the friend wiped her tears.
– No, Mom. I want a dog.
burst into tears again. I thought her hormones were playing up, and with time, she would get over it. After a while, the friend did resign herself to her fate, but she never fell in love with her son. She handed him over to daycare at the first opportunity, even though she was on maternity leave with her older sons the whole time.
The teacher constantly complains to her grandmother that she brings in a snotty grandson. She doesn’t see his parents because they are constantly at work. Grandmother also has to take sick leave. In general, he is assigned to her.
hides behind her work, claiming that we are now a family with many children, and we need to earn money. And all this because Vanka wasn’t born a girl.
Such stories are not uncommon. Often, parents are dissatisfied with the child’s gender, and they don’t love them as much as they could. Many don’t even dare to have a second child because they’re afraid of repeating the “mistake.”
Men are not connected at all — if something doesn’t suit them, they simply go to another woman. They may use different wives to get the desired result.
What’s your opinion on this?